clean your house first. then address the landscaping.
the last week or so i’ve been doing a lot of cleaning - or rather “organizing” as it was “organize it” week according to my schedule of retirement activities.
i took on the inside first, pulling out things from every nook and cranny, room by room in order to dust off and decide to keep, fix or throw. during day 2 i turned off my “buy something for this spot!!” brain and turned on my “what is going to practically help you with your day to day” brain and started buying things like fridge organizers and speaker wire to hook up those free speakers in the garage. Not as sexy but absolutely what we need to stay on top of cleaning on a weekly basis and music so the TV get’s turned off more.
it’s funny. i used to hate routines. now i see that some routines simply get the junk out of the way so you can move on to the things you want to pursue. discovering what you already have and fixing what’s around, ends up being kinda fun.
once the house was in order (we’ll ignore the basement for now) i moved outside, doing the same to the yard, the garage and the garden. somewhere around day 6 after spending so much alone time i started to think about the process as a metaphor for life. i’ll explain…
imagine that the house is you, your inner thoughts, fears, things you avoid, everything that is you on the inside and the yard is everything you display on the outside for everyone to see, so your clothes, your hair, your bike etc. conventional knowledge might tell you to take care of your yard first because that is the first thing that people see, but to worry about your house later. or - worry about the parts of the house you think people might see but push the rest under the rug or in that drawer.
i dont know where i picked up this bit of cultural suggestion, but through the act of cleaning i realized that taking care of your house first (we’re still takin metaphor’s here, so house = you) is always the most important. why? because you live there.
we all know which closets in the house need cleaning, or which junk drawers need organizing. and although bringing in new shiny things feels great - so to can the cleaning and examining the things we already have. it’s like buying a nice vase over and over because you never looked to see that you already had a nice one. or maybe it’s like realizing you have 12 OK vases but trading in the junk for just one really good one. could go a variety of ways, but the point is this:
it is always ok for us to honestly examine ourselves with love. there’s no point in being upset at what we find. we simply need to dust off the old, assess what’s really important and toss the rest. i’m not saying that actually cleaning your house will give you any magical inner peace, but i am saying that if you actively decide what you’re willing to share space with, you’ll probably like the design a whole lot better anyway. so remember kittens:
clean your house first. then address the landscaping.